Me, digging hozier out of his shallow grave at the base of a willow tree: hey buddy what’s new
Hozier, blinking in the golden mid-morning sunlight: my lover moves with the wind, as chaotic as the churning sea, as deadly as a raging blaze. When her eyes meet mine, i see myself dying in her arms, by her hand, and my soul finally knows bliss
Me, tucking him back in until spring: okay sleep tight buddy
Help a Trans Girl Escape her Controlling Dad with her Wife
Things at home just went from bad to worse.
My dad hates my wife and refuses to accept that I am trans, and he is trying to make us sign a contract that would allow him to basically control us and our whole life.
Here are a few scary things in the contract (my dad is in red, I am in blue, and my wife is in green):
We live in the basement, so he is basically saying he will be free to inspect where we live and this would make it really hard for us to move or hide anything from him.
Here he is saying that he will not allow us to take our car and will not give us any of the rent money we have been giving him that he promised to give back to us when we move out.
(The theft part refers to when we were using the emergency credit card he gave us to buy food and other essentials when my wife was unemployed for about a month, he has already taken the money from our rent but is very angry at us for this.)
Here he is saying that he can change the rule at any time with barely any notice and as he pleases, and is threatening to kick us out and call the cops on us if we do anything to make him angry.
My wife and I are both terrified of my dad and want to leave as soon as possible, hopefully before January5th, as that is when rent is due and we need that money to move.
If anyone has any money to donate to our moving efforts, please send them to
Futhermore: “tumblr” as you experience it is defined entirely by whom you’re following. If you think tumblr doesn’t focus enough on recovery or female artists or Jason Momoa, follow some recovery/female artists/Jason Momoa blogs, and tumblr will change.
THIS. People are always going on about “tumblr is so toxic” like there’s a singular tumblr experience and we’re all helpless to escape it. UNFOLLOW PEOPLE. If someone’s putting bullshit on your dash, just unfollow them. Follow new people. It really is that simple. Tumblr is what you make it.
January is the year we start following just what we are interested into
